Salary negotiation scripts for every moment
Most people accept the first number they're offered — and a ten-minute conversation is routinely worth thousands of dollars a year, compounded across every future raise. The hard part is never the courage; it's knowing the exact words. Below are twelve word-for-word scripts for the moments that actually decide your compensation, from the first “what are your expectations?” to signing in writing. Copy any of them, swap in your numbers, and say it warmly.
Three rules before you open your mouth
- ✓Never name the first number if you can help it. Ask for the budgeted range. Whoever anchors first gives up information.
- ✓Anchor every number to research, not need. “Based on market for this role” beats “I need” every time. Bring data.
- ✓Stay warm and get it in writing. Negotiation is expected; offers are rarely rescinded over a polite ask. But never resign your current job until the final number is in a written offer.
The 12 scripts
“I'm still learning the full scope of the role, so I'd rather not anchor on a number yet. Could you share the range budgeted for this position? I'm confident we can find a fit if the role is right.”
“Based on my research for this role and market, I'm targeting somewhere in the $X–$Y range, depending on the total package. Where does that sit relative to your band?” (Set X to a number you'd genuinely accept — recruiters often hear the bottom.)
“Thank you — I'm genuinely excited about this. The base of $X is a bit below what I was expecting for the scope and my experience. Could we get to $Z? That would make this an easy yes.”
“I want to be transparent: I have another offer at $Z, but your role is my first choice on the work and the team. If we can close the gap on base, I'd sign with you today.”
“I understand the base band is fixed. Would a one-time signing bonus of $B be possible to bridge the gap? That helps offset what I'm leaving on the table by moving now.”
“The base works. Could we revisit the equity grant? An additional N% (or $ value) would reflect the ownership I'd be taking on this role, and it aligns my upside with the company's.”
“Given the results I've delivered here — [metric] — and that I'm stepping into a larger scope, I'd like the offer to reflect market for this level, which is around $Z. Can we align there?”
“Thank you — this means a lot. Could I have until [day] to review the full package with my family? I want to say yes with full commitment, not rush it.”
“Great — so we're aligned on $Z base, $B signing bonus, and [equity/benefits]. Could you send the updated written offer reflecting that? Once I have it, I'll sign and we can set a start date.”
“Thank you for the offer and the time your team invested. After careful thought I've decided to pursue another opportunity that's a closer fit right now. I'd love to stay in touch — I have a lot of respect for what you're building.”
“I appreciate the enthusiasm to move fast. A decision this important deserves a couple of days. Can we extend to [day]? I'm leaning yes and want to commit properly.”
“Over the last [period] I've [quantified wins]. I've researched market for my role and level, and I'd like to discuss bringing my compensation in line — around $Z. Can we make that happen this cycle?”
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Open Negotiator free →Frequently asked questions
Is it rude to negotiate a job offer?
No — negotiation is expected. Recruiters build offers with room to move and very rarely rescind over a polite, market-anchored ask. Not negotiating routinely leaves thousands on the table.
How much should I counter?
A counter of 5–15% above the initial base is common and reasonable when justified by market data and your experience. Tie the number to scope and research, and stay warm.
Can I negotiate if base salary is capped?
Yes. Negotiate the levers around base: a signing bonus, more equity, extra PTO, relocation, or an earlier review. Ask for one or two specifics.